Be the “Man” the “Real Man”, love your wife.
l was sleeping next to my wife when I got a notification from Facebook. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time school mate.
I accepted her friend request and I sent her a massage “Hello” since she was still online. She replied “Hi, I heard you are married with kids” I responded, “Yes”. she said, I really love you and I’m willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life”
Hmmm, I quickly closed the chat to make sure my wife was sleeping.
I left the bed and sat on the chair that is in my bedroom.
I looked at my wife, she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausted day from work and house chores.
As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. “This woman doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she’s sleeping in our bedroom.
She really trusted me so much that I can’t hurt her” I started thinking, ” she left her family, her caring mother, her Dad who at all times was providing almost everything she needs and her siblings who always brighten her day and joined me in my one bedroom apartment leaving her dad’s mansion.
All these thoughts and more was driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, “how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?” So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the “BLOCK” button.
I turned to my wife and I walked straight to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me.
I can’t afford to loose her trust or make her cry. NEVER!
I was able to do that because I am a “Real” man. Real men don’t cheat on their wives. Real men don’t make their wives cry. Real men don’t make their wives regret Marrying them. Real men value their wives more than any other woman.
Be the “Man” the “Real Man”, love your wife.
Avoid distraction with all cost… Both genders.📌


Nice post sir
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Thanks
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You’re welcome 🙂
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That’s the devil tempting you bro, and I’m not even a religious man! Fight that temptation. Be the real man that you truly are.
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Wow
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I had a similar thing happen to me. Old female friend trying to contact me after I was married with kids. I may not believe in god and the devil…but I know what TEMPTATION is and I ran the other way.
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And you did too, brother.
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Wow
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Wow indeed.
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This is a wonderful read. Very relatable. Thank you.
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