DON’T BE TOO QUICK TO CALL SOMEONE YOUR BEST FRIEND….!!!
DON’T BE TOO QUICK TO CALL SOMEONE YOUR BEST FRIEND….!!!
Friendships are often tested during moments of difficulty and distress. Many people have acquaintances, but true friends are revealed in times of adversity. It is easy to have people around you when everything is going smoothly, when success, happiness, and good fortune are flowing in your life. In these moments, many will be quick to call themselves your friends, offering congratulations, celebrations, and support.
However, the real test of friendship comes when things go wrong. When life takes an unexpected turn and troubles arise, that’s when you will see the true colors of those around you. It’s often in your darkest moments, when you feel at your lowest, that you discover who your real friends are.
Some may abandon you quickly, offering polite excuses or simply fading away. Others might have a deep connection with you, but when they can’t gain anything from your situation, they may disappear as well. Hard times expose the true heart of people. Those who genuinely care for you will stand by you, not for what you can do for them, but because they value you for who you are.
It’s important not to rush into labeling someone as your “best friend” too quickly. Best friendships are built on trust, loyalty, and mutual support, and those qualities are often only revealed in times of struggle. Hard times act as a refining fire that reveals whether someone is truly committed to standing by you through thick and thin.
Remember, people will come and go, but a true friend will remain steadfast. So, allow hardship to be the true test of who deserves the title of “best friend.”
True friendship is not about having someone who is always there when life is easy; it’s about having someone who chooses to stay even when life is hard. True friends show their loyalty not in your triumphs but in your trials.
Don’t settle for acquaintances who leave when the storms come. Seek out those who remain and help you rebuild when everything falls apart.
REFLECTION:
True friendship isn’t measured by the number of people around you during your moments of success, but by the depth of support you receive when you face trials. Allow time and experiences to reveal who is truly trustworthy in your life.
PRAYER:
Lord, help me to value the true friendships in my life. Grant me the wisdom to recognize who is loyal and steadfast, especially during difficult times. May I also be the kind of friend who remains loyal and supportive, no matter the circumstances. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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My best friend’s have been there for me during homelessness when my husband wasn’t there for me and I called him up and I said where are you and he said at home in bed and he had another woman in our home and our bed while I was outside and he even celebrated my birthday me being outside. I thought that my husband was my best friend. But I have friends who wrote letters on my behalf about my homelessness for my separation and alimony but my husband never wanted to pay me anything. He took everything out of my name from banks, gave my business away and the woman was even wearing my clothes. We even had a daughter and he left her abandoned and homeless too while this other person go get children elsewhere to call their own. Don’t ever call someone a spouse who take vows to take care of you but instead have family and friends who call your wife and tell her he died just so they can have your good life instead. Never trust a preacher’s child who you think will live by the word of God or believe in it because my husband and his siblings and parents don’t. Don’t ever believe people are really helping and building homes for the disaporoas because I am one but my husband never built or bought me a house. Disaporoas are investments to make the Natives who had been living in Africa rich. Otherwise if it my best friend my husband was real he wouldn’t have never made a billion dollars and left me and our daughter homeless and broke, instead he gave my community property portion to his family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances and their friends.
But God knows my situation and knew I was a real person that loved my husband and liked my in-law family. Just like my husband took everything back and gave it away to others.
The government tore down their residential project to build a free or train station with disaporoas who have a better plan to benefit others. The site they had for homes my husband never gave his wife but to himself, friends, family other woman etc just became that homeless wife he left outside who went back to college homeless and slept in her SUV and not one from the dealerships they own. But one she had to purchase on her own. His wife went back to school homeless and took classes in Real Estate, Construction, Construction Management, Water Treatment, Appraisal and Media Arts and even received an honor in empowerment for women.
So sometimes during your struggles and darkest hours , your light is shining bright because it comes on , on the inside and it’s not a fake selfie light and a cascade on social media because you don’t have to dress to impress. You become the real deal because when you rebuild your life and new homes. Your certified and bonafide with real credentials. Nothing you build or advertise is for friends of favors, it’s for real. Because when you build you can build a business with infrastructures and you have the real license engineers to it, not people pretending to do it for show just so they can make and keep disaporoas money. Because they knew in the first place their plan wasn’t real. African Diasporas are not white and Latino.
They are African American people who have suffered in America and wanted to return to Africa on good faith to help build their communities. But because those who sit high as governors in Africa got their position for a reason and they know a fraud when they see one. They know who are building for disaporoas. They know what human trafficking looks like. Re real engineers don’t build homes that come crashing down. with no infrastructures fake people do.
So, while those who move on from you during your hardships Good! Because you don’t owe them nothing anyway. Celebrate your victory with your real colleagues who got the same education and training you got.
Be happy to be your own best friend because strong independent women stand alone anyway and don’t need a man to dress them, feed them, carry them. A real man honor and respect you and stand up for you. Even as a wife. He doesn’t put anyone else before you or above you. When you step, you both walk together when it’s real.
Whenever people see your hardships don’t be mad about it because the community is watching how you come out the situations that someone else created. His how you handled it and what you did what your time and how you come out of your circumstances. Because walking across stage homeless with straight A’s getting as a homeless graduate honor and you have the right crowd applauding you not laughing at you.
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